I then kiss her for a little more because im a dirty mother fucker.
I got messages like this every once in a while, but this one was particularly flirty—the sign-off mentioning that I should look her up if I ever happened to be in Toronto.
The outcome would be the same no matter how your husband might find out.
To betray him so completely to someone he despises is unforgivable.
You'd better pray to God that pig doesn't blackmail you into more favors and that your husband never finds out.
And, it is better to be honest about it.