Simply that content on this sub should be of people who also use Patreon.
She no longer lives there and we don't see her anymore.
Abusers can appear to be highly functional.
Lived there for 2 years and got residency, then my Gran passed and the distance was shown for what it is.
This set a tone for the following decades — but the existence of abuse could not be completely suppressed.
It is desperately wrong to leave them waiting.