You create a little world where each of you are funny, chatty and light-hearted, and all the pain and incompatibility that caused you to separate fades away.
Have a talk with them about what turns them on then go from there.
Does your partner have a specific preference? Remember: There was a reason or two that you broke up.
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Also, watching an overtly sexual movie like American Pie or may help you all get into the mood to talk.
Has anyone ever cum on your face? I really like them obviously, but we never really talk about sex.