Too bad and let that be a lesson for all.
Val My wife and I had been sexually permissive with others.
I have figured out don't try and find a woman that is in her late 30's thru late 40's to do this, cause they aren't interested in flings, they are more interested in long term relationships.
It has to do with husbands sharing their wives with other men, something which sounds outrageous to anyone who is not involved, themselves.
One night I was awake, but pretended to be asleep when she came home.
I'd like to hear a woman's opinion on how best to propose this situation.